Prior to writing this article, I did not have a Fatherhood Mission Statement.

I've had thoughts and a basic understanding that I want to be a "good" dad. For example, as a father, I want to:

Teach my boys right from wrong by making intentional choices and involving them in the process.
Show them how to be kind and loving towards others through my daily, personal interactions.
Guide their hearts towards the Lord by praying out loud and having intentional conversations about my faith.
Instill a solid work ethic by working until the job is done, not when I'm tired.

However, thinking about this now, these are all the "whats" & "hows" I plan to accomplish my mission of fatherhood, but not the "why" itself.

This idea comes from Simon Sinek's (@simonsinek) book, Start With Why, where he refers to this concept as the Golden Circle. While the book is focused on business and primarily analyzes the success of Apple versus its competition, the concept can be applied to multiple aspects of life.

Once we shape, form, and believe our "why", we give purpose and understanding to our "whats" and "hows".

Today, I want to challenge you to develop your Fatherhood Mission Statement.

Define your "why" as a father.

Then, think through your "whats" that support your "why" and "how" you will accomplish them.

- Chad Vrla
Founder of TheIntentionalFather.com

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